Saturday, November 14, 2009

Spirituality and LOA - The Law of Aliens

First, Old-School LOA…

Positive thinking is always a plus – and for people who habitually engage in self-defeating thought patterns, learning to think positively can be truly transformative. However, the “Law of Attraction” and similar approaches that I’ve noticed online view negative thinking as the cause of any kind of difficulty that anyone faces in life. If bad stuff happens to you, it’s because your negative thinking attracted it.

Proponents insist. Does the individual suffering dire misfortune appear mentally sound? Well then, the negative thinking must be unconscious. Did the person recently ace a series of personality tests and clinical psychological evaluations? Then the negative thinking was somehow missed or it occurred in a past life.

LOA Breakthrough: The Law of Aliens

The law of aliens states that if bad stuff happens to you it’s because of aliens. Not a trace of trouble-making aliens in this solar system? Then they must exist in another one. Turns out that we’re alone in the universe? Then the aliens are from a different universe.

Which LOA do you believe in?

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Lisa at Mommy Mystic has me as a guest. She puts a lot of attention on the last couple chapters of Original Faith, which I found hardest to find language for -- Thanks, Lisa!

As Time Allows – I’m no longer able to reply to every comment and email I receive. My illness is progressive and bedridden time has gone up by a couple hours over recent months, so I need to focus on getting posts done. But I read everything I get, and sometimes take direction for upcoming posts from comments and emails. So please keep them coming and I’ll reply as time allows.

18 Comments:

Blogger Vincent said...
I can understand your reason for the question. However, the LOAs are not really worthy of consideration, being dogmas for those who can't think, don't think; especially those who hope to make a buck supplying remedies for the dysfunction they have so simplistically defined. Thus the blind lead the blind.
1:59 PM  

Blogger Hayden said...
the law of attraction creeps me out. It's another blame-the-victim game.

When I first moved to CA back in the late 70's everyone I met was "chanting for dollars." They didn't call it that.... it was my cynical term. but they were oh-so-spiritual as they sat and chanted in the surety that this "spiritual practice" would bring them wealth. Bugged me then and bugs me now. Particularly since focus on MORE isn't a very spiritual attitude, and none of them were starving... just inconveniently placed lower in status than they wished. (Reminds me of Janis Joplin's "Lord Won't You Buy Me A Mercedes Benz")

I'd prefer to believe in aliens.
3:58 PM  

Blogger SusieQ said...
Paul, you wrote about the Law of Attraction several weeks ago. I had not heard about it until then. I discovered that the church of Scientology believes in this.
12:32 AM  

Blogger Paul said...
It seems to me that the law of attraction has a lot in common with “prosperity theology” and other permutations of the idea that “good things happen to good people” and “bad things happen to bad people" - a notion that’s more Bronze Age than New Age.

One of the main points of the Book of Job was to overturn this way of thinking. There’s so much evidence against it (just this morning I heard a report of a seven year old boy gunned down with his father in a drive-by shooting) that it has to be heavily emotion-driven.

I’d guess that the main emotion is fear - that it’s a matter of people trying to convince themselves that nothing bad can happen to them if they just keep meditating, doing yoga, going to church… People with this sort of take on their religion/spirituality are doing the same thing with it, so to speak, even when they happen to hold different beliefs.
11:02 AM  

Blogger Kaushik | beyond-karma.com said...
There are a few areas of the LOA which are glossed over in the frenzy. The self-victimization you point out is one. Two, if the LOA had any validity, there couldn't possibly any starving children in the world. The narcissism and egotism of the LOA is easily missed, but then that's the very character of narcissism and egotism. Finally, the in-the-face conspicuous absence of any actual evidence is startling, but even more startling is that this isn't much of a hindrance for the people who want to believe.
10:14 PM  

Blogger Lee said...
Neither appeal.

Nothing I have seen suggests that there is a fairness or balance in the universe. One action on your part will not attract reward or retribution.

And aliens? Why bring in malevolent little green men when we can be so awful to ourselves?
5:43 AM  

Blogger Vincent said...
There are however millions who believe in blessings, and that prayers can be answered - the right kind of prayers.

Often they are "blessings in disguise" - apparent "bad stuff" which nevertheless heralded something else.

A person with a religious (you might prefer to say a spiritual) temperament will be disposed to see blessings as being showered down constantly, needing only to be recognised as such. The recognition does of course required surrender to divine will.

From such genuine and unarguable awareness (how can I dispute the subjective perception of another?) spring the crude caricatures of spiritual awareness which you referred to in your post, Paul.
10:47 AM  

Anonymous Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord said...
Awesome, I get to be the Pollyanna of the group! I believe wholeheartedly in the law of attraction as one of the laws that governs our existence here. While it's true that LOA went mainstream by appealing to people's desire for "stuff," that's not the whole story. In my own life, there have been far too many "coincidences" for me to discount that what I think about is what I bring about. And it's not all about cashmere, cars and cash. It's about healthier relationships, FUN experiences, true love, and more.
Again, though, I don't live and die by LOA alone. There are other energy laws, including karma (past life and present life), that dictate what happens to me.
Eh, but that's just me. I can't say that what works for me will work for anyone else. I just know that my life today is infinitely more joyous and contented than my life was before learning about LOA.
~ With Love ~
11:32 AM  

Anonymous Lisa (Mommy Mystic) said...
You know, as much as I have railed against LOA at times, I will give Megan a little support here:-) I also believe in the law of attraction, BUT I just don't think it's the ONLY law at work in the universe. So I do think it's tremendously helpful for attaining goals, for example, and in some cases it's also helpful as an aid to healing. And I also think there are alot of different teachers out there expounding LOA, and some are doing it in a very sophisticated way that I can support, but many are not, and as you say it becomes blame the victim...
I'm reading this interesting book called Occult America that is all about the history of various metaphysical ideas in the U.S. and a BIG one is the whole law of attraction/think positive type ideas. Americans have been attracted to these ideas in various forms for 150 years - connects well to the whole 'American dream/self-determination' thing...
1:47 PM  

Blogger Paul said...
Megan and Lisa – Here are a couple quotes that point to the sort of thing I disagree with:

“If you have a dream, it is possible.”

“Attract anything you want in thirty days!”

Such overstatements try to sell people – often they’re literally trying to sell people on a book or other product – on the idea that the ONLY factor in their happiness or success is how positive or negative they are. And that’s obviously not the case. Take, for example, people who die in genocides or are born cognitively disabled. All sorts of factors have huge impacts on people every day beyond their attitudes.

But of course that’s not to say that our states of mind don’t have an impact. Clearly they do, and in some situations, that’s the key to changing our lives for the better – that is, overcoming our own negative thinking.

In other cases it’s not.

As to the paranormal question of whether mind can affect matter, if it can, it would seem to be a relatively weak force. If your child, say, is diagnosed with cancer, you may well pray or meditate – but it’s really doubtful you’ll do that instead of getting medical help. And if you had to choose between medical care and prayer, you’d probably opt for the medical care...
11:05 PM  

Blogger SusieQ said...
Paul, I tend to agree with Megan and Lisa on this issue.

Everything that happens to us is not always a result of our thoughts...no question. But everything we decide to do began with a thought. Your book was a thought first before it became a reality.

True...some people promote an idea in order to sell books, tapes, videos and so on and make money. Even when they do their message may still have great merit and be very helpful to others who may need to be given hope. It is much better, in my opinion, for a person to think that their dreams can come true than to think their dreams are impossible. If I'm not mistaken I believe a couple of songs have been written about dreams coming true.
12:42 AM  

Anonymous Patty - Why Not Start Now? said...
Hi Paul - I'm late to the party here but I'm all for this new law of aliens. Not only is it funny, but just as good an explanation as the other LOA. I've seen far too many people berate themselves because they don't measure up to the original LOA. Who think they must be flawed because they haven't cracked the code. Of course there is serendipity and synchronicity at work in our lives. But many have gone before and illuminated it without all the woo woo. Like Carl Jung and Joseph Campbell, to name a few.
3:38 AM  

Blogger Paul said...
Susie and Patty - Our thoughts are important all right. The problem comes when this truth is tremendously overstated and made into an unbreakable "law."

So, for example, it's generally a good thing to encourage people to follow their dreams. But to turn a motivational saying like "If you can dream it you can do it" into a literalized law or dictum is false. How many kids dream of playing professional sports? That's just one of countless literally impossible dreams that people have. We don't all have the same gifts and same opportunities.

Susie, not sure what you're saying about thought coming first - you mean before behavior? Seems that way to me too. I think the behaviorists in psychology thought differently but it's been ages since I read that stuff. I remember disagreeing with their idea that thought is just a "byproduct of behavior."
10:28 AM  

Anonymous Lisa (Mommy Mystic) said...
Paul - I agree with your take...that's a 'middle' ground to me...and all the huckster like selling does concern me, that is one thing this history book covers quite well...ALOT of people have made ALOT of money on 'think positive' in America's history, it turns out...
2:01 PM  

Blogger SusieQ said...
The word "law" seems to me, too, a little over the top when describing the phenomenon of attraction.

I have a common sense understanding of how the "Law" of Attraction works. Here is a simple example. We are in the process of remodeling our kitchen. We replaced our kitchen faucet, which was only two years old, with a new one that better matched the new decor. I thought (had the idea in my mind first) that maybe I could try to sell the used faucet. But I did not know where to go to sell it. I began asking others and eventually someone suggested I place a for sale ad on Craigs List on the Internet. I did just that. I ended up "attracting" several potential buyers. I finally sold it to a woman who wanted it for a vacation home she and her husband were remodeling.

Initially I had doubts that anyone would want to buy a used kitchen faucet. But I quit thinking that way. Had I continued to think that way, had I gone with my doubts, I would have never inquired about where I could sell the faucet. I would have never listed it for sale. I would have never attracted any potential buyers. I would have never sold it. In other words, my thinking influenced the outcome.
12:32 AM  

Blogger Paul said...
Susie - Makes sense to me. That's the sort of interaction between one's thoughts, actions and those of others that everyone understands.
7:54 PM  

Blogger Hayden said...
what I want to do (lee's comment not withstanding) is attract one of those little green aliens into my life!

I can't believe they're bad - that's just projection on our part.

how much fun would that be!

imagine. phone call.

"hi, guess what. An alien came for tea."
"no, not Allen. An alien."
"no, not Ailene Who? Alien, you know, the guys with the space ships."
"yeh, right. no it was very cool."
"no, we just chatted, right? about stuff. mom, dad, the kids, you know."
"no really. very polite. didn't slurp his tea. did refuse the macaroons, nut allergy he said."
"VERY FUNNY. NO, that doesn't mean he's allergic to me."
"Wait, there's someone at the door..."
(screaming)
"Leave me alone, I don't need your funny white jacket with arms that tie behind me... murph murph murph...."

OK, maybe not fun after all. You gotta' keep it a secret.
9:43 AM  

Blogger firebird said...
If it wasn't for aliens, I wouldn't be here at all...
11:53 PM  

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